(Closed) unwanted bridesmand /sister

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
7295 posts
Busy Beekeeper

to keep the peace, i might just keep her as a Bridesmaid or Best Man but have no expectations.  maybe you will have to do some extra to make sure she gets her dress, but other than that, don’t worry about her.  if you don’t ask her to do anything, then she can’t let you down.

Post # 4
Member
1014 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@dynamic_duo: i totally agree.  in this (very difficult, i’m sure) situation i would keep the peace, and place no expectations on her.  then if she does step up, you can be pleasantly surprised.

also, if there’s someone else you’d like to include in your party, you should just ask them.  you don’t have to kick out your sister to have another bridesmaid.

Post # 6
Member
311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am so glad it all worked out then. No more worries! Just enjoy the process now 🙂

Post # 7
Member
8 posts
Newbee

wow tough!

The topic ‘unwanted bridesmand /sister’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors