(Closed) Unwanted guests…

posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
217 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

Wow – I’d be super furious and angry too.  She not only invited unwanted guests, but she stole an invitation to do it?!  What should you do – well, I would WANT to wake up my Fiance, and between his grumpiness from being woken up, plus my anger – we’d end up in a fight… so I am recommending you do not wake him up! 🙂 

You and your Fiance are a team.  Remember his sister is the problem, not him.  Face this problem together… I’m too tired to think of more advice, but just don’t wake him up and the two of you can talk about this tomorrow.

Good luck!  And again I am really sorry – this situation is awful. 

Post # 4
438 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2008

I don’t get it….the RSVP was from her with their names on it as well?  Did you specifically write everyone’s names on the RSVPs?  Maybe she didn’t necessarily steal it….but anyway, the point is, this woman is not invited to the wedding, and your Fiance needs to tell her that.  flat out.  or did he tell her its okay?

Post # 5
125 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I agree with drembml. Fiance tells her the friend is not invited. Put the foot down. Unless he told her she could (which sounds unlikely, since you both sacrified beloved friends off the guestlist).

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