- 10 years ago
- Wedding: September 2008
i just want to vent. I had a super long rushed day today involving taking bro to the airport early in the morning, rushing to work, after my half day at work rushed to my appointment at the post office to apply for my passport and then rushing over to my friends house to get ready for her wedding rehearsal (wedding’s tomorrow.) I just got home and on the table gleaming at me were a few more RSVPs. I happily opened them and saw that one was a family member of Fiance whom I adore. The other was my old boss and his wife that I frequently keep in touch with. Here comes the third one. FSIL’s so called boyfriend AND HIS MOTHER! WTF?!?! Did i miss something here???? Fiance and said it was ok for his sister to bring a date. We have no problem with that. But somehow he got a formal invitation from us. I have NEVER met this guy before but i have met his mother once or twice. she was a rehab friend of Future Sister-In-Law. Nice family i’m marrying into right? LOL I am so pissed off right now! I had to go down the list (and fiance also) to cut off people we’ve known for years so this bitch can invite her friend from rehab and her "boyfriend??!" One guest was enough but i don’t even know her! I can not believe how inconsiderate people are! we’ve explained to her that we’re paying for the wedding and it’s expensive. *side note: she is the problem child in the family and everything she wants she gets. FI’s family kisses her ass. She doesn’t know what "expensive" means because everybody takes care of her.
I would love to wake up Fiance right now and let him have it! I don’t know if he was in on this but it doesn’t seem right b/c he cut off people he cares about to make the list smaller. His sister i do not trust AT ALL. It’s a whole story that i can’t get into right now. She was at our house when Fiance was putting the invites together. Either Fiance let her take some or she just helped herself to a few. She’s been known to steal money and credit cards from her own family members so I wouldn’t put it pass her to take invitations. What do i do??? Should I let Fiance handle it? I’m afraid he’s too easy going to take care of this. I just hate this so much. Who gives you the right to invite your own friends to our wedding??? Bare in mind that I do not care of this particular sister at all and Fiance knows it. He’ll probably think I’m just picking on her. Please help!