Post # 1
see my previous post for more information.
FH’s family contacted him angrigly last night to ask for the name of the head of my academic department. They intend to call this person (whom I’ve never met) to make them let me go to the family wedding.
(this will do no good, even if they CAN get through academic security protecting anyone other than my own parent from viewing my class information)… the time agreement is between me and my professor in the classes I have to take to graduate.
FH told them we wouldn’t be on this crazy wagon anymore and if they wanted to pursue this, they would be alone. They are completely overstepping boundaries and FH and I are not going to respond to any more from them until this weekend. I am so tired of them calling me a liar, saying family is not important to me.
FH will ‘end it’ this weekend or at least make them understand we will not be pushed around.
Post # 3
Can you say psycho? They’re seriously trying to invade your academic life and screw around with it over something so stupid? Yikes, run away, run far, far away.
Post # 4
that is so embarassing. i hope they are not able to contact him. :[
Post # 5
Ugh. If they do contact him or her and you know about it, shoot the prof an email explaining that you are appalled at their actions and that they didn’t do it on your request. Sometimes faculty assume that a student requested for parents to do something like that, so it’s good to just let them know that it wasn’t you trying to weasel your way out of a requirement.
Post # 6
@SimplyChic11: WTH???? ARE THEY SERIOUS?
Post # 7
Yup totally serious and no, thank God… my college does a fantastic job of securing student’s information. I had to sign off on a sheet of paper saying my own parents could access my grades!
– got another voicemail from Future Mother-In-Law today saying she wanted to know the dates of the show I am working on (for a class that is keeping me from the wedding, I am an arts major) so they can come support me(?!). I did not answer and probably won’t. Unless they act genuinely sorry or see that their previous actions are ridiculous, I do NOT want them anywhere near me. :/
FH and I are trying to run far far away… that’s for sure! I hope we can have a happy life without them trying to ruin it for silly things like they have been.