(Closed) Update #3: My pPROM/membrane rupture at 17w

posted 5 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 481
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m So sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine what you are going through. You and your husband are so strong to let little fox go in peace. So many parents can’t do it. Be kind to yourself and to each other. I wish you all the best. You deserve it and more.

Post # 482
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@FreckledFox: I have no words to express how truly sorry and heartbroken I am over the loss of your sweet boy Grady.  You are an amazing Mom!  The strength and courage and love that you have shown has been nothing short of extraordinary.  Please know that if and when you are ready to talk, I am here.  If there is anything that I or any of the other local bees can do, please do not hesitate.  We are all here for you.

Post # 483
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Honey Beekeeper

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Wishing you strength and comfort during this difficult time. 

Post # 484
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I just read all 33 pages.  I am so, so sorry for your loss.  I wish I had better words to help alleviate your pain. =(  You are an amazingly strong woman that has endured incredible pain. Baby Fox has the best momma he could have asked for.  :faraway Internet hugs:

Post # 485
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

Ι am so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your husband strength and courage. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers. 

Post # 486
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@grannypantiesrock thank you for setting up the march of dimes page. It’s nice to be able to do something concrete to help others like Grady.

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Post # 487
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854 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Oh Fox, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your sweet Grady. You have shown such strength and hope and most of all love throughout this process, and I just know Grady felt it all. You all are in my thoughts, take care of one another and be gentle with yourselves. 

Post # 488
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Oh god… I’m so sorry for your loss. I was waiting for an update, but not this one. Be strong and grieve as long as you need. I’m so sorry… 

Post # 489
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

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FreckledFox:  my heart is broken for you. I am so so sorry, there are no words that I can say to make this any less horrible. But I’m sorry. I pray for you and your family, I pray that you can heal from this with time and I pray that in time, when  you are ready,  you are given another miracle to help heal your hearts. My thoughts are with you and Grady and your family. 💙💙

Post # 490
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain that you are enduring and my heart is breaking for you. I pray that you and your husband will find peace and healing soon. 

Post # 491
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

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FreckledFox:  Even though my boys lived, I went through and still go through the guilt of letting my family down because my body couldn’t keep my kids in long enough. Please dont blame yourself. Its hard when you don’t have anyone to blame because it isn’t anyones fault. It isn’t yours, your husband, the hospital, and ESPECIALLY not your body. You were strong for Grady and your body kept him cooking for as long as possible. The fact that you made it to 28 weeks is utterly amazing! And that was because of your body you got to meet Grady and he got to meet you and your husband.

It is not your fault.

I am so sorry you are going through this and I hope as time goes on your wounds will begin to heal.

Post # 492
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m so sorry to hear about your loss of sweet baby Grady. You and your husband showed him so much love in the small time he was here.  The strength that you and your husband had though out this journey is simple amazing!  Your family and sweet Grady will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.  I wish you peace and love in these coming hard days.

Post # 493
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m so sorry for this enormous loss.  You and Grady were such strong fighters through all of this, and it’s just not fair at all that this was the outcome.  Grady’s too short life was blessed by having the most amazing, loving parents possible.  And his mama is amazing for making it so long after a PPROM.  I wish Grady could have stayed here on earth.  You have an angel in heaven.  Though I’m sure things will never be “all better,” I’m praying for some peace for you and your family eventually.    

Post # 494
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

It’s all been said. I wish you peace and acceptance in the weeks to come. Baby Grady touched SO many lives in his 6 days earthside, and as parents, you did absolutely everything you could for him. That kind of strength, plus the strength to let him go, is unheard of, and you’re amazing parents to an angel in heaven now.

Post # 495
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I am so sorry beyond words for your loss. I know nothing can be said to take away from any of your pain. There is no one in this world that would think you could have done more. You are a wonderful mother and you did your absolute best. My deepest thoughts are with you and your husband during this time.

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