(Closed) Update: Breaking up with a Vendor

posted 5 years ago in Money
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

i personally eould have been more direct. You may get her asking a lotof questions as it sounds like your not sure.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

I followed your thread before and I think you made the right choice.

What you wrote is actually really well put, but maybe more direct:

“I took your recommendations to heart and after talking it over with my fiance, we’ve decided that we will be re-working our wedding plan. For that reason, we decided not to move ahead to sign the contract with you”

The rest is fine. I’m thinking she might bill you for the other stuff but oh well, she did help!!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - rolling hills of southern italy

I might throw in, “I’m sorry for the inconvenience,” and a “thank you so much for all the help you gave us, and if you need to send us an invoice for work already completed, (with phone calls made on our behalf) I am more than willing to make sure you are compensated for that time.”

I would also cut out “probably” (need to rework…) and “really” (not the right time) they are a bit wishy washy. Also instead of it not being the right time, you might say that “we are unable to move forward”

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Overjoyed:  Good for you!! Glad things worked out and that you found a new DOC! 🙂

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