- 2 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
I posted a few times about stressing over my friend’s destination wedding. In short it is a kid free wedding abroad and I have a toddler and breastfed newborn. I was getting very stressed over how to make it work with not taking the baby (she refuses bottles)
so an update. I went with my friend to look at evening wedding dresses and for lunch. I explained everything and told her that we wouldn’t be able to come.
she was disappointed but took it so well. She said she understood and that they don’t have to give final numbers until a few days before the wedding so if anything changes just to let her know. She did say I could bring the baby but talking through the plans for the wedding it really isn’t suitable for a baby (it goes on all night and is very loud)
i took your advice and we’ve invited them for dinner when they are back to celebrate and we will send a gift and card.
We had brunch yesterday and I’m still chatting with her on details because it’s so exciting and sad we can’t be there.