- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2011
This is an update to this thread:
So one of my aunts called my mom today and it ended up with her yelling at my mom. She first said that they had been trying to figure out what we were talking about since they don’t remember saying anything about being unhappy (which sounded like a lie to my mom). She then tells my mom that she thinks we’re making it up and that he wouldn’t say anything like that. When my mom read her some of the things he said, she then went off on a rant about how my mom shouldn’t be involved because it has nothing to do with her (he had told me it didn’t have anything to do with me which is why I passed it on). She said I was old enough at 23 to call him to talk about it. He wasn’t at the wedding so really, there was nothing to talk about and I was telling my mom about it to see if she had heard anything. Also, I think at 33 he’s old enough not to start unnecessary drama on Facebook. She ended up yelling at her saying none of it was said and I should have handled it with him and how none of this makes sense.
Fine. So now, I’m sending her the messages and then sending him a message about how he didn’t need to start all of that and probably about how he needs to grow up and then deleting him (I know that sounds like a 15 year old’s way of retaliation but hey, I have to play on his level for him to understand what I’m doing).
Thanks everyone for your words of support earlier. I just thought I’d provide the update.