(Closed) Update: FSIL's wedding & now FI is upset (but I still don't care)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Haha love that photo

 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I love your reaction to it. You go girl. Tell hubby he needs to talk to his family and sister about how he feels. If they have not really nailed anything down who knows what will happen. Atleast you have your date set and eveyone is not mad at you.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

You’re keeping so cool about it all, I give you big kudos for it.

The picture is also amazing.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Well first of all, let me say how refreshing it is to read about how not bothered you are by this, although I find the people that keep asking if you’re pissed to be shit stirring fools. But thumbs up to you!

As far as your Fiance goes, I am guessing it’s a sibling rivalry thing. Husband actually said something similar after we had our first baby and his sister announced her pregnancy- he didn’t use the phrase stealing thunder but made some comment about how his sister got knocked up because she was jealous of all the attention we were getting. Who knows. I don’t have siblings and the relationships all my friends have with theirs are tinged with competition and bids for attention. He’ll get over it.

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

It’s not really stealing his thunder when its two months after his.  Hey, my husbands sister got engaged 5 months after us and had her wedding 3 months before us (and we had sent out Save-The-Date Cards and all that jazz so she knew).  See how your Fiance would have felt about that… haha, maybe he’ll stop whining about 2 months after.  =)

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Yay for you for staying above it all. Also wanted to say how much I love that picture, haha! I’ve been laughing for the past 5min thinking about it.

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