(Closed) *UPDATE* “He cheated on me LAST WEEKEND”

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

I’m so so glad to hear that you made a decision that you are happy with. I think walking away from this relationship will be great for you. Thanks for updating us, and good luck talking to him! (HUGS!)

Post # 4
18628 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m glad that you are feeling better about your decision.  It sounds like you realize how to be on your own and what you need to do next.  Good luck with everything!

Post # 5
617 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Amy, you are so strong.  I think women much older than you long for the wisdom you already have. You will find someone who deserves all that you have to offer.  Hang in there and keep remembering what an awesome support system you have in your family.  *HUGS*

Post # 6
2633 posts
Sugar bee

You sound like you are in a good place right now and that is awesome! 


Good luck and best wishes.  You are SO going to get through this and you WILL be better off for it.



Post # 7
8351 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Oh Amy,

I am very happy that you are getting on with things. Like you said it will be hard, but you will be stronger for it.

This post made me cry, for what you have lost and also for what you have gained. I know in my heart that you will make a new life for yourself and it will be a better life. And, just when you aren’t expecting it, the right one will come along for you.

Post # 8
1391 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

You are so brave and strong! It takes a lot to stand up to someone you love. Especially when they have done something as terrible as this. You deserve to be loved and love in return, and you deserve it to be with someone who respects you even in moments of great temptation. Good luck with your phone call!


 P.s. that last paragraph was so moving, I cried and i am proud of you!

Post # 9
1032 posts
Bumble bee

Oh honey I am so sorry. I was in your shoes June 14th of last year… but it is crazy how quickly things can turn around. Have hope. Have faith. Trust in God or whatever you believe in. I am now with the right man, he has a ring, and has promised I will be his fiance in two weeks or less… Now if that can happen to me, there is no reason it can’t happen to you. ((HUGS)) It sucks.

Post # 10
2867 posts
Sugar bee

Kudos to you, even though I know it still hurts.  I hope and know that in time you will find someone deserving of you!  Best of Luck and again, I’m sorry but it’s not the end…you’ll be back here again with a new man and oh, how great that will be!

Post # 11
1315 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Well done you. Go grab the world by the tail and give it a good shake!

Post # 12
81 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010 - Family Ranch outside Glenrock, WY

I’m glad that you were able to find some clarity amidst the heart break.  You are going to have a wonderful life and you WILL find a great man who will appreciate you and could never imagine being with anyone else 🙂


Post # 13
520 posts
Busy bee

just sending gentle hugs your way….. you are a strong woman!!! xoxo

Post # 14
11808 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

I didn’t see your original post, but just want you to know that I think you’re awesome.  You made a tough decision, but ultimately it sounds like the right one.  Stay strong and be happy!

Post # 15
1129 posts
Bumble bee

Amy – Your post made me cry as well (yeah, I’m emotional these days!) because although we were not engaged, I’ve been where you are.  I’ve loved someone and been betrayed, I walked away from a man who made a mistake but begged me to forgive him.

All I have to say is that just because your engagement is over, you do not need to leave the ‘bee.  I hope everything turns out well for you, even if right now this feels like the hardest thing you ever experience.  You are a strong woman.

Congrats on your new life, your graduation, your future.

Post # 16
2206 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Best of luck sweetheart.

Sometimes I read these posts, the sad ones, and they just break my heart because I kind of wonder if the Bee is going to make it, emotionally.

My heart goes out to you, but I’m not so worried about you. You are going to hurt SO BAD for a long time. But you clearly are going to make it. Between the love that surrounds you and the good head on your shoulders, you’re going to make it.

I’m sure that isn’t the most comforting of words, but hopefully you’ll think of it when you are beating yourself up for missing him or the future you wanted or the good memories you had. You are going to mourn, and you’ll probably hate yourself for doing it, but let yourself. You, my dear, are going to make it.

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