(Closed) *UPDATE* “He cheated on me LAST WEEKEND”

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 92
Member
995 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

WOW! Your strength and maturity are well beyond your age. Your post was insightful and inspirational. You will meet someone someday who deserves you and you are so right, you will be stronger and wiser for it. Good Luck Amy!

Post # 93
Member
794 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

You are so brave and strong.  I am 26 and now engaged to a great guy but I went through a similar situtation when I was 22.  I had been dating my high school sweetheart for 5 years and he had even taken me to look at rings.  He broke up with me suddenly and I later came to realize that he cheated on me but didn’t have the courage to tell me.  I felt so lost  but I knew that I wouldn’t let it break me. During this time I tried to be so strong and rarely cried.  But I found my “anthem” in a song that I would play in my car by myself where no one else could see me.  It was kind of my reminder that I would be okay in times when I couldn’t see it myself.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46rEgKhTJms.  I hope this song does the same for you as it did for me.  Now I am in an amazing relationship and am thankful for all the hurt I went through because it really made me appreciate a great thing when I found it. 

I hope all the best for you and I know you have an amazing future ahead of you.  I hope you continue to be a part of the bee community as we all support you.

Post # 94
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61 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

wow this post was so inspirational to me congrats to you girl i know it will be nothing but hard. Me and my Fiance broke it off and it was really hard to say it or not seeing my ring now that we just friends i feel alot better and you were alot stronger than i was you have given much words of wisdom now you are going to let it be i am so happy to hear that also. you really insporied me we are friends but like you live it for me. i have been scared not doing all of me without him but your right I LOVE ME More CONGrats you go girl

Post # 95
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652 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I read your original post and it broke my heart. I honestly felt your pain in the pit of my stomach, I’ve been there before.  You are an amazingly strong woman and I know you will have an amazing future!  Stay strong!! 

Post # 96
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383 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Get it, girl!  You deserve much better, and it sounds like you’ve gotten to a place where you KNOW IT.  So good luck, and keep that chin up!

Post # 97
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652 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

you are a very strong and smart girl, many ppl do not do what you do and stick with it for the wrong reasons and end up even more miserable. i wish you nothing but happiness for the future.

Post # 98
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121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2009 - Cathedral of the Sacred Heart & The Jefferson Hotel

Your post brought me to tears, I am so touched by your strength. I wish you nothing but the best, and hope that you always remember that you “love you more”, never settle because it is clear to all of us here that you deserve so much more.

Post # 99
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1106 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am so sorry that you had to go through something like this. You are an extremely strong woman and you really are doing the right thing with putting yourself first. Hang in there… it will get better.

Post # 100
Member
713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

You are so so so strong. Good luck with living for YOU for a while. You should keep writing in your journal because you are very good at it. My best friend is going through a heart breaking break up right now and i forwarded your 2 posts on to her. She needs to get to the same place you are. There isn’t much to say to either of you that is not cliche but just know that there is something to all those lines.

::hugs:: i am crying over here for you… but someday you will have your china with a guy that would NEVER hurt you like you are hurting now.

Post # 101
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337 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Good for you Amy!! 🙂 Way to make such a tough decision at such a young age. I’m sure you’ll find your dream job, and many doors in your career life will open for you.

 

As we drive along this road called life, occasionally a gal will find herself a little lost. And when that happens, I guess she has to let go of the coulda, shoulda, woulda, buckle up and just keep going.” – Carrie Bradshaw 😉

Post # 102
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175 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’m sorry that this has happened to you. Just when you least expect it, love is going to show up again. Take care of yourself and your heart and don’t let this incident keep you down.

Post # 103
Member
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Stay strong girl and remember once a cheater always a cheater.  I learned that with an ex i had years ago.  he cheated on me over 30 times.  Stay strong and stick with your gut feeling.  Its so hard but things do get a lot better 🙂

Post # 104
Bee
8 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2010

This is so beautifully written. Bravo. You are incredibly strong and you deserve so much happiness. Your ex lost a great woman and he will forever regret that he let one foolish night tempt him. I am so proud of you and I kinda love your dad! His words to you brought tears to my eyes… what a great man. I know that you will find a man like that one day. Thank you for sharing this with us and good luck on your journey. I’m positive that everything will work out for you.

Post # 105
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128 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You cant appreciate happiness unless you know what it is like to be sad.  Hang in there, things happen for a reason.  Maybe you were meant to find out now instead of years and many moons later.  Wish you the best……..

Post # 106
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10 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2010

this is so great to hear that you’re doing well. i just read this and it made me think of my past experience with a long term boyfriend of mine always telling me things like, “i just flirt with them but you know i come home with you” and then i realized. A-HOLE! you come home with me cause everyone else sees how much of a loser you are and i didn’t. so i kicked him to the curb and found my husband. i know that you will be great and i hope to hear about you and your journey more here!

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