(Closed) *UPDATE* “He cheated on me LAST WEEKEND”

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 107
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

You are AMAZING!  I was touched by your post.  I wish you many Blessings and God’s Grace. 

Post # 108
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Kudos, high fives and chest bumps !!!!! Way to go!!! Good luck and with that attitutde you’ll have a great life.

Hugs!!

Post # 109
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Please keep us updated on how you’re doing. There are many of us on the interweb sending you good wishes. 

Post # 110
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

WOW.  What you’ve written in your update is inspiring – your strength and determination – it’s the stuff of what role models are made of!!!  I wish more people have the courage and character that you do.

Kudos for kicking that loser to the curb and loving yourself.  Wish you all the very best because that’s what you deserve ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 111
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

Amy, you have a beautiful spirit. The way that you are handling this just moves me to tears. When I was around your age (I’m 27 now) I found out just after my college graduation that the love of my life for the 5 years I was in school had cheated on me for two of them – and wounded up with a son. How awful it feels to find out that the person you cared about, loved, dreamt about, eat -sleep-breathed- could be so horrible. How could this person who you thought you were going to share your life with be so cruel? I know your pain.

HOWEVER – life goes on. You are already on the right path to your happiness. It’s going to take time and you may feel like everything you do, everything you think – reminds you of him. Be strong, honey. Time heals ALL wounds, and this is true. God will never put more on you than you can bear. Thank you for sharing a piece of yourself with all of us, and thank you for reminding me how strong we as women are! Many best wishes and (((hugs))) to you! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 112
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Amy,

I didn’t fid your post until just a few minutes ago. I had to read the first one to really figure out what happenend. Let me tell you, this second one made me cry. No post on here has EVER done that to me. I have to say, I commend you for what you’ve done! You’ve found a way to move on and keep your head up. Another man will come. (I had a struggle with this too)

I want to thank you for your post. I was in high school and went through the same thing (although we never got engaged or married) I spent 4 years off and on with a man who didn’t really love me with his whole heart and who cheated on me many many times.

You rock as a woman! You’ve given all the women out there the courage to do what they might not have the courage to do! Keep your head up and “walk on” as Reba McEntire says…… 

Best of luck in your future!

Post # 113
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

You’ve just made me tear up at work….

 

You’re an amazing, strong woman, and you will be fine. I really have no doubts about it. I can only wish more woman who were cheated on by their partners would be more like you.

 

(and I’d suggest you consider a job as a writer, you’re brilliant!)

Post # 114
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Amy,

I’m so sorry you are going through this. I truly felt your pain while reading your letter and damn did it make my stomach tie up in knots, so i cant even IMAGINE how you are feeling. I don’t know you and you don’t know me, but I hope that you will be strong because as a woman I know you can be. You are still so young and have your entire life ahead of you and I hope that soon, someday you will see the beauty in that. I hope you know that everythin happens for a reason and one day you will learn the reason that this happened. Maybe to make you grow, maybe to make you become stronger, maybe to make you more independent, maybe to make you learn to never make mistakes that can hurt the ones you love, maybe so that you can focus on yourself and maybe so that one day you will find your TRUE love. From the number of people posting already, I hope you know that in some small distant way we are all here for you. Whether that be that we comment on your post, or just send {hugs} or just take the time to read your story – every woman (and maybe man?) on weddingbee who has seen your story stands behind you. No one deserves this. I hope you can take the time to heal and once you have finally healed close this door and find an open window.

Much luck to you and of course {{hugs}}

~clarebee

Post # 115
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2020

Amy,

hope you are doing well. You are in the hives thoughts and best wishes. Sorry for your loss

Post # 116
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I was exactly where you were a year ago… Although you are taking it alot better than me.

Just some advice from someone whos been there, cut him out of your life as quickly as possible, don’t drag it out or “try to be friends”, avoid him at all costs for as long as you can.  If your ex is like mine he will try to pop into your life (and usually with a new girl on his arm everytime) and all the anger and emotions will come back and you’ll want to run up to him and punch him in the face or push him infront of a moving train and try to make him understand JUST how much he hurt you… But it’s useless and pointless…  Let it go.  Forgive him and thank him (not to his face, but in your mind) for making you a stronger person and teaching you how to appreciate the wonderful man that will end up spending the rest of his life with you.

For the time being, listen to Kelly Pickler’s “Best days of your life”… It’s a fun upbeat song about how cheating exes are losers.  It will definitely make you smile.

And for the record, I’m now in a wonderful relationship with the best man in the world, who I can trust (easily) with everything… and it doesn’t take work.  Once you are ready to be in another relationship, the right guy with come around ๐Ÿ™‚

good luck, and I’m glad you are standing up and leaving!  Your ex is a douche who doesn’t deserve such a smart and classy woman.

Post # 117
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Amy,

My heart breaks for you.   I was reading this post while listening to Leona Lewis Better in Time and I just feel like this song was playing just for you. 

Hang in there girl.

Post # 118
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Amy,

I’m so sorry that this is happening to you. I’m sitting here at work crying for a girl I’ve never met but who represents any girl who has had her dreams shattered by someone’s lack of consideration.

I think you’re making the right decision. As hard as it is to admit, you are right in saying that you’ll never trust him again. I realize I said above that I was sitting here crying for you, but now that I think about it, I don’t feel sorry for you one bit. I feel sorry for him, for losing what is obviously a wonderful intelligent woman.

Good luck with everything. I hope you find someone deserving of your awesome self. But until that happens good luck to you in everything you do.

Sending much love and positivity,

Molly

Post # 119
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

WOOHOOO!!!! Good for you!!!

 

He won’t save me, because I’m going to save myself, change myself, and see myself more fully than ever.

 

I love that. I don’t know you but I am very proud of you! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 120
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m happy for you and your decision.  I’ve ended an engagement before and two years later, I am about to get married to a fabulous guy. It sucks, a lot, at the time, but it’s definitely all happiness from here

Post # 121
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I have never been in that situation however I applaud you for sending that MF away. YOu have done something that many women cannot do , end a relationship because of loneliness that a breakup causes.

 

 I live by
1. TRUST  AND LOVE BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG OVERALL TRUST

When you lose the T word , in my book it is over.

Luck and remember when you are not searching for someone they will unexpectantly come your way.

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