(Closed) Update: he doesn't have the ring after all.

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1013 posts
Bumble bee

Its ok. I was sure my Fiance had the ring a few months before he proposed. He definitely DIDNT have it until the night before he popped the questions but that doesnt mean he wasn’t looking. He went probably every week to look at rings and once he found one he loved, went back 3 different times to make sure it was the one.  

So even though he didnt have the ring when i thought, he was still busy looking for it!!

Post # 4
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2565 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Grr, I am so sorry!  I know how frustrating that can be.  I think my SO might have the ring, then other times I am totally convinced he hasn’t even begun putting money away for it. *sigh*

Post # 7
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699 posts
Busy bee

@newcitylights:  Awww, thatbites, i know how frustrating it is for you to keep waiting and hoping and wishing. I’m also 99% sure he hasn’t gotten a ring, so I’ve been putting the whole thing on the back burner

Post # 8
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90 posts
Worker bee

Fully understand this! I really thought my guy had got the ring- was even aware that a large amount of money had gone in and out of his account and I had no idea what for…turns out it was for annual fees for his car! It’s hard not to be disappointed when you find out he hasn’t but it’ll happen eventually and all the waiting and hoping will be worth it.

Post # 9
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43 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Aww I know the feeling too! We went to a jewellers in February to commissionmy custom ring. And ever since then it has been such a struggle to remain calm and not nag him! I hope patience will pay off for us and the rings and proposals will be well worth the wait!

Post # 10
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52 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Awww, it’ll come soon! just be patient πŸ™‚ I am looking at rings with my SO this weekend.. a proposal is at least 2 months away though! I think I’ll go crazy waiting!

Post # 11
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597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@newcitylights:  Urg. Men, somtimes they really should think before they open their mouths and get us all excited for nothing. πŸ™ 

Post # 13
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2565 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@newcitylights:  For real…  We just had another conversation about our financial situation, and I am thinking he’s not even close to buying it. πŸ™

Post # 14
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4429 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@newcitylights:  you might be wrong my Fiance tricked me and told me he could not afford to get me the ring he wanted for me and said maybe next year ; ( 1 1/2 months later he proposed and threw us a surprise engagement party with all our family and friends. i felt so silly being bummed about it. hes probably throwing you off. let him live life and don’t bring it up anymore you know the anwer in your heart. men hate to feel pressured. let it be for a while.

Post # 16
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218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yeah, my fiance said things like that too, just to throw me off the trail.  He wanted it to be a surprise.  You just don’t know.  That’s the agonizing thing about it, but you just don’t know.  I hope it happens for you soon!!!

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