(Closed) UPDATE: Husband has anger problems not sure I ever loved him, so lost

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 31
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Good for you girl!

I’m glad you didn’t fall into his trap of him “hurting” himself to manipulate you. Be strong!

Post # 32
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211 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

I’m sorry this is happening to you. You are doing the right thing though. You need to take care of yourself. You did your best to save the marriage and you certainly shouldn’t stay married because of what other people might think. Sending you internet hugs!

Post # 34
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

confusedandupset:  great update, I’m so glad you are healing and taking care of yourself! And clean… 🙂 

Post # 36
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Whoooooo hooooooo! Best update EVER!

Post # 37
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Worker bee

super late to the party, but skimming through, tell all Christian naysayers to read the New Testament. Leviticus can shove it because Jesus died for all of our “sins” and we are forgiven. let’s also remind them that their lie, aka sin, they tell about their weight is equal to divorce in God’s eyes. gahhhh. it drives me crazy when people spout Old Testament! finish reading, people!!!

Post # 38
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

confusedandupset:  YAY! Glad all is well. You could make up your own last name. My Co worker did that she didn’t have the best dad or first husband so instead she made up another last name for herself. It was refreshing to her, also kept her crazy ex from finding her. 

Post # 39
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

What about taking your mothers maiden name if you don’t want to go back to your fathers surname and don’t want to keep your married name?

Post # 40
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

To those who judge you ask them to live with him for a week and see how they feel later.

If leaving him gives you relief then you know you’re making the right move. Trust your instincts enough to point you in the right direction.

Unfortunately society/religion can teach us not to trust ourselves and rely on external teachings for guidance. You have your internal guidance system – trust it.

Post # 41
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

confusedandupset:  EDIT – sorry i wrote this before seeing your update ! 

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 5 months ago by  mink714.
Post # 42
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

I’m 26 right now and you have plenty of time to start a family/ get married if you decide that’s what you want to do later on. Pssssht don’t even worry about being old!

 I’m so glad that you’re doing well and got out of the situation. Thankyou for all the updates- I wiah more bees would follow thru.

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