(Closed) UPDATE: In tears freaking out!! I know I shouldn't

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 47
3755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I’m so so sorry for your loss. Please do not blame your doubt, that is in no way the cause. Sometimes we just “know” when something isn’t right. I had the exact same doubt from day one of my BFP and also lost my baby at 8 weeks. It’s so hard to go through. I wish you the best and hope you get your rainbow baby soon.

Post # 48
2530 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’m so so sorry, honey.
Sending all my love your way.

Post # 49
2902 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I am so, so sorry. There are no words. 

Post # 50
3941 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m so sorry to hear this update.  There is nothing that any of us can say to make the pain go away.  There are a couple of threads on here for miscarriage and pregnancy loss support that you are more than welcome to join when you feel up for it.

Keep your chin up and you will get your rainbow baby.

Post # 51
707 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2004

Sending all my love and support your way 


Post # 52
1009 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I am so sorry!!! Giving lots of virtual hugs, you’re in my thoughts, hon.

Post # 53
7873 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m really sorry for your loss.

Post # 54
1415 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I am so, so, sorry for your loss. As someone who has experienced more than one miscarriage I know the emotional and physical pain that you’re going through.

Exactly one year ago today I was at the hospital having D&C. I had went in for an ultrasound to see my baby who was supposed to be 12 weeks but we discovered that our baby had stopped growing and had no heartbeat. Darling Husband and I were beyond devestated and the fact that it happened the week before Christmas made it so much worse. I’ve never cried so much in my life.

There’s nothing you did to cause the miscarriage so please don’t blame yourself. Unfortunately miscarriages are very common but people tend not to talk about them openly so we don’t realize how common they are. My SIL and I both experienced MCs within a few months of each other last year and now we’re both pregnant again. I’m 34 weeks pregnant and she is 22 weeks. We were both terrified to TTC again. I’m sure you will feel like TTC again when the time is right. You and your Darling Husband are in my thoughts and prayers. If you ever want to talk feel free to PM me.

Post # 55
504 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Oh honey, I am so sorry. I was so sure it was nothing to worry about when I read your first post in the other thread, and I’m so sorry things went downhill so quickly. Many hugs and prayers for you and your Darling Husband. Don’t feel bad about that sense of dread you had during the pregnancy. I’ve never been pregnant or anywhere close to it, but I do know that women can have impeccable intuition about their bodies. There was probably a very good reason why you felt that way, and it was nothing you could have controlled, caused, or prevented. PLEASE don’t guilt yourself over it.

As for moving forward, only you and your Darling Husband can make the decision if you want to try again. Take as much time as you both need to recover both physically and emotionally, and lean on each other for love and support. You may find that you want to try again eventually, but for now focus on taking care of yourselves and each other. And if you need to talk, the Bee is always here! Much love and support!

Post # 56
667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

My heart is broken for you. I’m praying comfort, peace, and relief will be sent your way.

Post # 57
1914 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Dallas, TX

Words can’t describe how sorry I am for your loss.

Post # 58
352 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I’m so sorry. Right now I’m sending you and your Darling Husband all my most sincere condolences.

My heart shrank with every word, nobody should ever go through that experience.

But, rest assured, YOU DIDN’T cause this! And I’m sure you’ll soon have a beuatiful family of your own.

Post # 59
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m so sorry for your loss. (((Hugs)))

Post # 60
561 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am so, so sorry.

Post # 61
339 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.

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