Post # 242
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567 posts
Busy bee
@jaylinjo: the way he has reacted – to the infertility issue, to you asking him to work on the relationship, and now to the news that you want a divorce – really shows his character (or lack thereof). Sweetie, I think you are doing the right thing. I am sorry that you now have this difficult road ahead to get through the dissolution of the marriage, but it does sound like it will be the right path in the end. Sending you strength. You are a strong person, even if you haven’t always been able to be that way with him. You will get through this!
Post # 243
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458 posts
Helper bee
@jaylinjo: I’m so sorry to hear how this is ending. Even when you know it’s best not to be together, it’s still a terrible, heart-wrenching thing to go through.
I’ll be thinking of you and I hope your divorce goes as smoothly as possible. Best wishes.
Post # 244
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5708 posts
Bee Keeper
I’ve been reading this thread for the last week but never responded, and I just want to say I’m sorry you’re going through this, but it sounds like you are better back on your feet and handling this very well. Good luck in the future!
Post # 245
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2803 posts
Sugar bee
I am so, so sorry. I really hope that this can end well, without a large fight.
You are an amazingly strong lady and I know that you will be ok. 🙂
Post # 246
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493 posts
Helper bee
make sure you go online and print out a copy of your statement from when all the money was pulled out and document the day that you were supposed to have your appointment and the day he pulled it out. You should be able to fight for it.
I don’t know what state you are in, but the NY legal system for divorce is all about making the woman happy, so document, document, document! 🙂