(Closed) UPDATE: MatronOH not coming to bachelorette

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1763 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That is the way I am looking at my whole wedding. That it will be a great day for Fiance and me no matter what as long as we get married and all the normal wedding drama can kiss my a””. My family thinks I have lost it because I am normally the one with a lot of anxiety, but in regards to the wedding planing have just been as calm as can be.

When she tells you I would just tell her that you understand and that is a decision she has to make. I wouldn’t act upset, especially if you aren’t. I think as long as you are fine with it, it probably is best to avoid drama.

Post # 4
2289 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

When she tells you, just say “okay, that’s fine”. I don’t think it’s necessary to make a big production…passive agressive people love those.

Post # 5
2226 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I agree with @misshelen – just act like it’s totally fine.  She’s probably just trying to get a reaction out of you anyway.

Post # 6
2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Yep if you really are okay with it then say Okay, and if you change your mind you know where to find us.

My Matron of Honor told me she wasn’t coming to the showers because of this reason or that reason. I just told her okay just let me know if it changes. Well guess what, it did!  She even gave me a ride to one of them LOL

So just play it cool, she may realize that this is about you and her and not about her and another bridesmaid.

Post # 7
455 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I read your other posts. Lame-sauce of your MatronOH for acting like this.  Don’t know what to say only that you make it clear to her if she brings it up that actually you wanted to get out of NYC for the bachelorette.  Maybe when she hears it from your mouth and not your MaidOH’s mouth she’ll realize it’s really what YOU wanted all along and she’ll realize that this was supposed to be for YOU anyway. 

Post # 9
3762 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I wouldn’t act surprised or upset.  Just say, ok, you understand she has the right to make that choice.  As you said, no matter what you and your Fiance will get married and it will be great.

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