Post # 1
It’s been 2 weeks since the argument with my Maid/Matron of Honor. I figured it was long enough to give her time to cool off from the incident. I called her to tell her I’m sorry and that we beem friends too long to let a dress ruin out friendship. Well she said “it’s okay, but (her bf) surprised me last week with a 8 day vacation to Mexico that week.. We’re spending Xmas there”. WHHHAAT! Her bf knew our wedding date because he was there when we made the date announcement. I didn’t get mad all I said was “oh nice, I hope you have fun on your trip”. she didn’t apologize to me for her hateful actions 2 weeks ago or even about my wedding. She simply just said “I will. So that means I can’t be at your wedding or in it. But I have to go. I’ll talk to u later” & hung up.
Post # 3
WOW. To me after reading your previous post it sounds as though she wanted an out, her boyfriend had probably already organised the trip when you had the argument. At least you now know she is not much of a bestfriend.
Post # 4
@2beemrs: Clearly your ex Maid/Matron of Honor has a different definition of “friend” than most of us.
Post # 5
@2beemrs: Sounds like she should be an ex-friend. Anyone who is your Maid/Matron of Honor should tell their boyfriend “thats when my bestfriends wedding is, can we reschedule? This is the biggest day of her life and I need to be there”. I wouldn’t waste my time contacting her again.
Post # 6
Yes. We been friends almost 10 years! i have a new Maid/Matron of Honor who is supportive & helpful. she has befriended me off fb twitter nd Instagram Even pinterest. I find it high schoolish nd rude that she won’t telle the problem she has.
Post # 7
@2beemrs: Wow, what a terrible friend! On the bright side, at last you are finding out now rather than closer to your wedding day. Can you imagine dealing with her immaturity and tantrums on your actual wedding day? I shudder to think…