(Closed) Update: My brother hung himself

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
9948 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Aaaah hon, (( HUGS )) to you

Death sucks, no two ways about it.

And Funerals (like Weddings) tend to bring out all the nutbars in a family… and the worst in people

I am sooooo sorry you are going thru this

Please know that us Bees are here to listen anytime you need to talk, or a shoulder to cry on.


Post # 4
2113 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Maybe you could throw your own memorial for him. Go to one of his favorite places with your other brother, maybe some of his friends. Play some of his music and just talk about his life, what he meant to you. 

Post # 5
3025 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

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@HonoraryNerd:  +1  This is an excellent idea!

Post # 7
7638 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I am so sorry that was handled so badly. (((Hugs))) again

Post # 8
5408 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m so incredibly sorry for everything that you’re going through. I really like HonoraryNerd’s idea!

Post # 9
729 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@Ninteenthchance:  I am so deeply sorry for your loss and the sadness around all of it. I truly hope you are someday able to find some level of peace and healing. Very warm wishes for you. 

Post # 10
2615 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012


Post # 11
11265 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

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@Ninteenthchance:  i think having your own private memorial would be a great idea.  maybe you can release one of those floating lanterns.

Post # 12
8481 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

@Ninteenthchance:  I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. =( *e-hugs to you*

I think the idea of having your own memorium for him is a great idea.

Post # 13
3400 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I am so very sorry for your loss, & for this latest stunt by your mother.

You can honor your brother in your own way, & he will always know how much he was loved by those who truly mattered and cared.


Post # 14
1030 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Ninteenthchance:  *hugs* I’m so sorry you are going through this. It sounds like it didnt feel like a memorial honoring your brother at all. 

Sooo frustrating, but I bet your brother knows whats in your heart and knows how you feel. Just do something that helps you feel conected to him. I’m sure he knows your love for him and he will be with you in some shape or form for the rest of your life.

*hugs again* and sending support and strength 

Post # 15
2449 posts
Buzzing bee

I’m so sorry that you’re going through all of this, and my thoughts are with you. I hope that you are able to have your own memorial for your brother and that you are able to honor him properly.

Post # 16
5062 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

I’m so sorry for your loss & for what your dealing with. Finding a way to honour your brother in your own way is a great idea like pp’s suggested. 

For me, I found the simplest things helped to remember loved ones like wearing their favourite colour, giving to a charity in their name. 

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