(Closed) UPDATE: my cat friend wrote back…

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1962 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

That whole situation was crazy! I’m happy that you hopefully won’t have to deal with any more drama related to this. It sounds like she knows she should apologize, but doesn’t really want to come out and do so. At least she isn’t trying to be condescending about your capacity to care for animals anymore. 

Post # 4
7774 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Ugh. What a nut.

Well, at least the situation is over. Sounds like she at least realizes that she blew this out of proportion, she just doesn’t want to admit it or apologize for it. I think the best thing is just to let this whole thing get put to rest and not have any contact with her, at least for a while.

Post # 5
1309 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Emotionally processing a cat visit.  People are hilarious.

What’s most hilarious is the that the kitty is probably totally indifferent to her and her angst. aha ha ha ha!

Post # 6
106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

What a freak! I think it’s funny that she thinks you misunderstood her request for a proper good-bye. She made herself very clear, but you chose to not want to comply which is your choice to make! Whether or not she felt she needed some emotional closure, she should not have refused to give you the cat or insisted on giving you a lecture before releasing the cat.

I’m glad the situation is over.

Post # 7
2657 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Did u ever tell your sister that her friend is a crazy?lol

Post # 9
726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

If she acts like this for a cat leaving to its rightful family, how does she react when REAL issues spring up?

Post # 10
5992 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

sharing the details, along with our joys, of taking care of YourCat

its a cat. feed it, water it, give it attention when it chooses it wants attention, how many more details can you talk about

Post # 11
106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

“What a shame that you assumed that sitting down with us would have been a condescending cat-care lecture instead of us, your friends, sharing the details, along with our joys, of taking care of YourCat”.

This very statement is condescending. Starting it with “what a shame” sounds like she is a talking to child. And I cannot even wrap my mind around how anyone could have that much to say about taking care of a cat that it would require a sit down meeting. IT’S A CAT! She fed the cat, the cat slept, she cleaned a litter box, maybe there were toys or catnip. Yes! Call a meeting to discuss the highlights. Give me a break! I hope this girl never has kids. I can’t even imagine what she would be like.

Post # 15
3620 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

So glad that this is over. She’s obviously a crazy person, and doesn’t deserve a reply from you at this point.

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