posted 6 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
4693 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Oh. My. God.


I don’t even think there are words for this.

Post # 4
1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Surprised  WHAT?!  Honestly, that’s sexual harassment.  It was unwanted and terribly inappropriate.  I would approach her, and if this continues, I would bring this up with HR and/or a supervisor.

Post # 5
1042 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Dear god. It sounds like she thinks you guys are waaayyyy better friends than you really are.

Post # 6
8042 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@GreenEyedMoon:  Seriously? Wow. I’m not sure if this is grounds for sexual harrassment as Pearberry says, but you definitely should bring this up w. a supervisor and/or HR if she does it again. I’d come see her at some point soon and say ‘look, you’ve made me feel extremely uncomfortable with X, Y, Z… please stop or I will have to talk to a supervisor/HR because it isn’t funny or acceptable’.

Ridiculous. Either that coworker has no brains or she gets some perverse pleasure out of this.

Post # 7
1401 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would be pissed. I’d tell her that those comments make you uncomfortable and you rather that she not say that to you.

Post # 9
13099 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

That is so inappropriate!  Wow!

Post # 10
9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Wow.  Super inappropriate.  Sorry you have to go through that.  I can’t imagine.

Post # 11
2607 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

A scene from GreenEyedMoon’s lunchroom:

Nosy Coworker:

“Are you two even having sex? If not, we need to talk!”


(enthusiastic voice) “Oh we do it ALL the time”

(mildly confused voice, with ever so slight, quizzical head tilt) “I’m pretty sure you can’t get pregnant in the butt though”



“Maybe I’m wrong… SHRUG… wow your lunch looks good!! What is that??!!”


That should shut her up pretty quick.

Post # 12
515 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Clark Gardens

NY would be getting a call from me. That is totally inappropriate!

Post # 13
5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

Totally innappropriate and I agree with the others that you could definitely file a complaint with HR if you want to. That is sexual harassment.

Post # 14
5475 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

@MissNoodles:  <— this.  My answer is always to use sarcasm to diffuse an uncomfortable situation… and this will definitely do the trick!

Post # 15
769 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

@MissNoodles:  HA!

OP, I would go straight back to her and tell her she’s inappropriate and if she keeps bringing it up, you really need to call NY. that is NOT okay.

Post # 16
1513 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MissNoodles:  hahahaha i usually heart sarcasm as a deflection tool as well, but in the case of a coworker with no boudaries i would be wary. talking about anal sex may open a whole line of conversation even worse than whats come up so far!

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