(Closed) Update on 10 year relationship

posted 5 months ago in Relationships
Post # 91
102 posts
Blushing bee

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@girltalk300:  If nothing has changed in ten years, nothing is going to change. You should be with somebody who wants the same things as you, who cannot wait to marry you! Is it going to feel the same knowing that even if you do get married and/or have children, those things have happened as a result of you pushing for them for 10 years? I understand that the unknown is scary, but do you know what is even scarier? Being in the exact same situation in another 10 years like Groundhog Day. This is not a symbiotic relationship. You are giving much and getting nothing. I know you don’t want to hear that. But there are far better things ahead than any we leave behind. 

Yes, it might be harder to meet someone in a pandemic. But being single is surely better than the “current” situation that has been going on for a decade? Ten years is a long time, and I don’t think you should waste another ten minutes. 


“For it is better to be alone than in bad company”…

Post # 92
10490 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL


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