(Closed) Update on booting my moh (vent)

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Well, at least you now have proof that you made the right decision.  Good riddance!

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MsNarwhal:  aren’t you glad that you don’t have to put up with that immaturity on your wedding day?  some people are so ridiculous.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@MsNarwhal:  Mine is my beer choice.  LOL  (sad but true.)

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

At least you figured out she was a shitty friend before your wedding. I unfortunately had a falling out with my maid of honor after the wedding and now it sucks because she is in all our wedding pictures. Just keep ignoring her and hopefully she will give up.

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Situatuions like there are where the block option on Facebook is WONDERFUL!  You can’t see anything they do or post and they can’t see what you do or post….it’s great to see a mutual friend with 8 comments on a post but you can only see 4 of them….lol…

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Good call on ending that friendship. She doesn’t sound like a very mature person.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper

Seriously…good call in kicking her out! Who needs that crap on their wedding day??

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

This is probably the second post I read today about Maid/Matron of Honor from hell!  Makes me glad that I chose my soon to be 11 year old daughter (previous marriage) as my Maid of Honor. =)  

If I were you.. I’d block her completely from fb so that you won’t have to see any of her posts or comments. 

 

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper

You definitely made the right choice. What a bitch that girl is.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I was supposed to be a bridesmaid in a former friend’s upcoming wedding but she turned bridezilla on me, and I told her I was stepping down, but still wanted to support her as a guest.  I had become engaged since being asked to be her bridesmaid.  While things were going well I asked her to be my bridesmaid too.  We’ve always had an up and down friendship and a lot of my closest friends worried about me asking her.  They knew how she could be but I didn’t listen…

We ended up having a huge blowout with her treating me poorly and acting like I didn’t care about her because I couldn’t afford to do x,y,z.  This is after I was the first to buy the dress, helped her plan, etc….blah blah blah.  I was an out of state bridesmaid and I’d never expect people to throw me a week long bachelorette beach party.  I would have had to make several trips out of state to attend all of her stuff, etc.  After dealing with her screaming at me over the phone a few times I just said screw it.  I didn’t need the stress.  It was just clear that she was going to be difficult to work with.  I sent her a message saying for the sake of our friendship we should both just step down as each other’s bridesmaids.  Of course, that set her off even more.  After a few hateful voicemails she sent my way, she attempted to make up with me by asking why I felt this way and when I told her what was bothering me she told me she effin hated me and we were never friends.  I deleted her off facebook and blocked her so she couldn’t see anything I posted.  We haven’t spoken since.  I asked a new friend who I’ve become really close with to be in my wedding party and it was the best decision I’ve made.  I have zero conflict in my bridal party and I know everyone in my pictures will be in our lives forever

I figured I would share my story to let you know that you’re not alone.  It’s crappy that this stuff happens.  I’m sorry it was your Maid/Matron of Honor, but fact of the matter is you’re clearly better off without her.  And it’s better that you kicked her out now versus having regrets about not doing it later.  That’s what I figured.  I still wanted to be friends with my former friend, and find a way to make it work.  Her wedding is coming up soon and it’s been hard on me because we used to be close.  I just got to the point where I realized it was my wedding and sanity on the line.  Just refused to take the bs.  Good for you for kicking her out and doing what you needed to do.

I’d block her so you can’t even see any of her stuff at all.  It’ll just be better for you and your sanity.  I knew I’d get upset if my former friend started posting stuff.  Just decided it was for the better to just block her. 

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@MsNarwhal:  Oh god! At least you now have validation that you were 100% right in removing this drama from your life. What’s with ex-bridesmaids posting passive aggressive wedding event pictures? After my crazy Maid/Matron of Honor dropped out of the wedding, she posted an entire album from my shower, which she completely ruined. And set the only picture I wasn’t in as her profile picture. LOL Like Wtf?

At this point, I would just laugh off everything she does. It helps, I promise!

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