- 10 months ago
- Wedding: September 2016
I’d absolutely go with the PI. If there’s nothing to find, then nothing will come up. If they get mad about it down the road, I’d say “You shouldn’t have been behaving like a shit.” 🤷🏾♀️
I’d be looking into potential issues around his occupation of the apartment and verifying that information gathered via PI wouldn’t compromise its usability.
Your sister is being very diplomatic and that neutral stance helps if her daughter decides to stick with this guy and he’s going to be at family gatherings down the line, but sometimes, it helps to have someone say “You know what’s happening fucked up, don’t you? You don’t have to put up with this.” Sometimes, we just need to hear someone else say it to realize that what we’ve been feeling is real and we aren’t crazy.