(Closed) *Update* On keeping silent date vs. talking…. we talked! Really glad we did!

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m sorry, I haven’t followed the story – but it seems as though you booked engagement photos before actually getting engaged. Is that correct?

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Hope it works out for you! I don’t really understand all the planning without a proposal (you can propose without a ring…) but I hope it happens soon.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

I’m glad you asked him. You would have driven yourself crazy just guessing. It’s too bad about the stone. Makes me curious about how a jeweler works around a natural fault in a stone. Good luck! Hope he proposes very soon. πŸ™‚

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@KatyElle:  Totally agree with this.  You want fall photos? No problem, just wait till the next fall rolls around once you get engaged!  We’ll be doing ours 9 months after getting engaged because we wanted fall too.

Hope it works out for you, but Im not sure I’d recommend doing much more planning until you’re actually engaged.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Aah How exciting!!!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Congratulations!  Just take the time to be happy and indulge in not having to stress over wedding planning (right now)!  You’ll get your fair share later haha!  Do you think he’s going to do it around a special holiday (Thanksgiving with family, Christmas, or if you’ve got a birthday coming up)?  My birthday is coming up in November, but I’m not so sure with my SO, he’s so quiet about the whole topic.  Well, I’ll be here waiting ever-so-patiently with you! πŸ˜›

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@mandigrl04: ME TOO I love fall!  I went to Bed Bath & Beyond this weekend and found absolutely no fall candles, it made me sad. :'(  Well that’s extremely exciting taht it’s going to be really soon!  Try NOT to look for engagement signs in situations.  It’s going to be hard, I’m going to have a problem with it, too, when I get there haha! πŸ˜›  Glad you’re not stressing.  I’ve been focusing on hours upon hours of job applications, keeps my mind busy. πŸ˜€  So now that I’ve been neglecting things, I’ve got laundry, house cleaning, nails to do (ohhh boy πŸ™‚  

 

I will definitely let you know. πŸ™‚  So far, I just hear the same stuff (being called wifey, fiance), sometimes I know he does it to drive me bonkers.  Why do they tease us?! πŸ˜›

Post # 15
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Helper bee

Good Luck lady!!! Glad you talked it out. I’m pulling for you (and me too!). I think that communication is the key. Anytime SO and I have a real nice heart to heart talk I always feel better.

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