(Closed) Update on moving out and a bit of advice

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am sorry you are going through this tough time – there will be a happier time in the future for you, I promise!

Personally, I would make this breakaway as swift and as clean cut as possible.

It will be a loss to you and yes he could probably pay you what you are owed, but do you really want to go through the friction of bringing it up?

It would be best for both of you to carry on as you are – as best you can without adding aggrivation that you do not necessarily need to go through.

Best wishes xxx

Post # 5
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1566 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@spaneshal: I agree that you should make a clean break.  I would not bring $ up…just move out and move on.  If he offers to pay you back on your deposit, then take the $ back for sure.  And thank goodness for sisters!!! I have had to move in with mine before when a relationship went south!  Good luck to you!!

Post # 6
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

*hugs* I looked at your history and yes- it is time you moved on, he has been stringing you along for more than a year now- I am so sorry it had to come to this- you deserve better.

Post # 7
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7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Quick and clean.

You are so brave and deserve so much more, keep updating us!

Post # 8
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I think you can ask for the money. If he doesn’t give then, he doesn’t give it. 

I’m sorry you’re going through this, but congrats on taking control of your life and trying to get happy 🙂 I know that things will get better for you soon.

Post # 10
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1056 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I say if you really need the money make him give it to you.  You are right you had to uproot yourself because he wouldn’t keep to his promises.  

If you don’t make a clean break and move on…I wish you the best.  I’m sure this has to be really hard for you. 

Post # 11
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6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

Good to hear you are sticking to your guns and finding support in your family. Money is so secondary to your peace of mind, though if you need it you shouldn’t hesitate to ask for it.

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