- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2013
Ok, if you read my last post you know I had some problems with my Bridesmaid or Best Man wanting to get married just after me. All of that got sorted thanks to my wonderful Fiance. He is friends with her partner and just mentioned in conversation one day that we chose our date because it would have been my grandfather’s (who was my best friend) 70th birthday and we were already stretching our finances to have that day ect. Her partner got that hint and told her to back off. But sadly things have gone down hill from there.
We organised a coffee date to talk about wedding stuff (yay) and she insisted we get the Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses made when I go to Thailand this April (this is when I’m getting my dress made) because she has trouble finding dresses to fit her and would need heaps of alterations. We agreed to keep her happy. We also discused how we’d keep in contact, we all agreed facebook so I don’t have to play the middle man and its easier to send pics. I sent everyone an email just asking for idea’s for dresses and possible days to go looking, no reply. A week later sent her a text asking if she got the email, she said she hadn’t looked at it yet, far enough. Got together that weekend no mention. A week later ended up texting her everything in the email and the other girl’s responses and asked if facebook email was still ok to contact her with. She said it was and she’d could do the date the Maid/Matron of Honor set.
Turns out that date is no good (family stuff) so i sent another email saying this on the 11th of December. Havn’t heard a word from her about it, saw her the week after I sent the email and since then havn’t seen or heard from her. I don’t know why? Maybe she got cranky at what her partner said and is blaming me? Granted I havn’t exactly gone out of my way to hang out with her lately. She’s very self absourbed and has said a few things which have hurt and upset me recently (one point I was in tears) so mabye she’s just picking up my vibe I don’t know. Just looking for some advice on what to do.