- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
Hey my beautiful bees!!
as most of you would know my plans ->
So…. then i had a problem… no not really a problem but it annoyed me -> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/support-advise-encouragement
So anyway… 2 weekends ago i was over at my mums place and because she didn’t know what was going on and thinking we had nothing planned she was showing me some cheap options we may like… one was this chapel on a boat down the coast lol. I was just like nah… not really wat i want. but then she logged onto to bank account on the net and mentioned that she had been putting money aside for our wedding *GASP* … and i did glance and see that it was about 2grand… so then i start to feel a little guilty LOL didn’t say anything… oh except “could it be honeymoon money?” and she was like “oh you can use it for whatever”
so i go home and tell Craig what she has planned and he goes on to say “we cant take her money blah blah etc” so anyway… i thought and thought… and i knew she wouldn’t except us not taking the money… and would probably be a little hurt if we didn’t….. BUT THEN i thought that maybe she would be a bit upset if we do wat we planned… have everyone over that evening and annouce it and have her feel like we’re just taking the money…. SO!!!! i decided that i needed to speak to her.
I went over to her place yesterday arvo and said i need to speak to you LOL. I told her that after she mentioned that she had money put aside for us that i felt like i should explain something… i told her that we would be running away in the morning but having everyone over that evening for a BBQ dinner. I told her how i thought that maybe she would have been hurt if we took the money without her knowing etc… she told me that i really didn’t have to tell her and that she would have been happy to give us the money either way…. THEN i was like “yeah but one other thing… i need to you to put a few stitches into my dress HA HA”
So she knows what is happening but she doesn’t know details. She was happy to know that my little brother would be there with… and she is willing to help with anything for the evening party that day.
I feel really good… kindda like i took a huge weight off my shoulder…I won’t be telling anyone else LOL i want it to be a surprise.
We also have a way to get our rings over here
This was another thing i spoke to mum about… because it’s her brother who’s the Jeweller… anyway she was like “Your inviting your Nana arn’t you?” and i was like “well i never thought about it… i didn’t think it was a ‘big’ enough thing for her to fly over here” LOL So my nana is coming over for the party YAY i’m happy about that… and she will bring the rings with her *HAPPY* AND i got an email from my Uncle and he said he deals with someone here who is about 20mins away from us, so i will be able to get him to resize my ring.
I feel like everything is just falling into place perfectly and i’m very happy and can’t wait till the day get here