(Closed) Update on shower drama

posted 12 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
8 posts
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow- I’m sure everything will turn out great. I, too, have a Maid/Matron of Honor who will do anything for me. For instance, she offered to "kick someone in the shins" if they tried to mess with my shower. lol. Strong MOH’s are a great thing to have because you know they’ll always be there for you. Your Future Sister-In-Law can’t stay mad forever because then she’d be the source of family drama, and I doubt she’d want to bear that burden. It’ll get better-just hang in there!!!

Post # 4
398 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

thanks for the update.

I think you are smart in letting them take care of this. With the help of Bridesmaid or Best Man3, it sounds like things will stay civil and the best plan will be made!

Post # 5
548 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

The best way to deal with a creator of drama: don’t even acknowledge it. Let the Maid/Matron of Honor and (sane) BMs go about their planning. They know you best, and will not plan anything that will offend anyone. If Future Sister-In-Law wants to skip the shower because she feels that wine is "immoral" (instead of being supportive of the things you enjoy), then let her pout. She will be the one who looks bad for skipping the whole shower. 

If she’s the baby of the family, maybe she’s just used to always getting her way. Hopefully she will come around, and you two will be on the same level.

It sounds like the rest of your bridal party is very supportive! You seem to have a great group of friends.

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