(Closed) UPDATE on situation with boyfriend

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

🙂 Thanks for some good news! Glad you guys are stronger and have amazing communication!

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think that’s a fair resolution for your son and your future family.  Glad you were able to work it out!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

out of curiousity, how would a wedding work? Are they invited? Would they go?

How did thanksgiving go? Did it come up or did anyone say anything? I’d imagine it being hard on your bf not having you there for a stupid reeason

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’m glad things are better with you and your BF and it’s great you came to this decision together. Hopefully his family will come around, but if they don’t, well it’s better to stay away from people like that.

Best of luck.. =)

Post # 7
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Helper bee

You say that he still plans to see his parents “whenever he wants.” Did he give you an idea of about how often that is / will be?

Just trying to imagine myself in his position, I think if it were me and my parents treated my SO that way, as much as I love my parents, I’d need to give myself a LOT of distance from them.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’ve been following you’re story, I’m so glad you guys are a good place now 🙂

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I feel like a bit of a stalker because I’ve been following your story, but I’m glad to hear it turned out well!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’ve been following your story.  I am so happy that this worked out for you!  It definitely does not sound like you’re being a bad mom.  You sound like a wonderful mom with a complicated situation!  I’m so happy this worked out!

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I was very pro you breaking up with him, but this does seem like an acceptable solution. I would not want any of my kids around those people. I hope that your SO continues to support this decision. Best of luck.

Post # 15
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Helper bee

What if he just saw his mother individually, maybe you BOTH could invite her over for dinner?

I dunno… maybe I’m alone here, but I still really don’t like how he sees no problem maintaining a close relationship with his parents after this… he should have more loyalty to you.

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper

I have been watching your story like a hawk as well!  I’m really, sincerely happy that you two came to a solution that works and that he’s being totally supportive.  I’m relieved that you won’t be separating the kids and that you two are now on the same page.  You must be feeling so much better.  I wish you all the best with whatever the future brings to you and your family. 🙂

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