(Closed) Update on the MOH form HELL??

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
533 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Yikes!!! I do not envy your situation at all!

I don’t think you are being unreasonable at all by not wanting her to stand with you for your wedding.  Most people know that there are costs associated with being in the wedding party and $256 seems like a very reasonable price to me.  Also, I don’t know why she is demanding that you show her every little detail of your wedding….does she think she is the one getting married???

I think you should have one last talk with her and tell her how you are feeling and that you don’t appreciate her critizing everything you do or plan.  If she still isn’t on board after that, then I would probably ask her to step down.  I don’t know what it will do to your friendship, but at the rate she is going now, I can’t see it being very positive for you anyways. 

Post # 4
19 posts

That’s cheap!

“Custom” Dress $135

Hemming Dress $20

Shoes $65

Dyeing shoes $20

Hair washed and dried $50

Hair styled $30

Makeup $20

3 nights of parking at hotel $60

(I made the jewelry for the wedding party, not even MoH $25)

$425! And the hair, makeup, and parking were all DAY OF surprises when we got there!

Post # 5
16 posts
  • Wedding: March 2013

as much as i agree u should ask her to step down, i understand tat can b a hard to do with a close friend, especially wen they r very controling and i’m guessing here but wen she doesn’t get things her way spiteful? sit down and talk to her, tell her its ur wedding ur budget, your desions ect. it none of her buisness. reminder her tat she is only Maid/Matron of Honor because YOU asked her. As for issues with how much its going to cost 2 be your Bridesmaid or Best Man, u’ve given her an estimate, tell her if she has a issue with it then she doesn’t hav 2 b one 

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