(Closed) UPDATE: Psycho FSIL. Help (Originally on the Family board)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

you should invite all immediate family

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Inviting her is the right thing to do but you do not have to have her as part of your wedding party.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Invite her to the dinner but you do not have to have her in your bridal party, or in any part of your wedding other than guest. Kill her with kindness and he will look like the dumb-o not you!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Yes, you should invite her. 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Also, when did this drama occur? You posted about it yesterday, so 24 hrs isn’t really much time. It’s obvious you’re still really fired up about the situation, but you need to be the bigger person and let it roll off you. 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You need to invite her. Have a convo with FH and tell him that if she even starts to appear like she’s going to make a scene he needs to step up and tell her to leave.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You should invite her. Is that the only incident that has happened between you 2? If so, I would get together and try to talk it out.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think it is one of those common wedding annoyances… but you have to invite her. It just makes you look mean, spiteful and tacky, if you don’t… EVEN if there are millions of justifiable reasons not to!

I have a tacky/hideous cousin that has done countless unforgivable things–BUT– she is my mother’s brothers daughter and my grandparents would feel extremely embarrassed if she was not invited. So- for their sake, I will grin and bare it.. She is like a tazmanian devil, she just destroys everything around her, but… I just have to suck it up. Hopefully on my wedding day, I won’t even notice or think about her once. I wish you the same!

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