- 8 years ago
- Wedding: December 2018
Just come back to this thread to see how you are going. Deleted an email without opening it? Gosh that’s such a huge step from where you were! You go girl!
So pleased that you are starting to see that even though you had sone great times with this guy that he also was a jerk! I’m terrible saying any of my exs are bad people/jerks because obviously there was things I liked about them so I like to look at it like we are both ok people, who either brought out the worst in each other, made mistakes or just weren’t meant to be. My ex cheated on me and I have made peace with it. He isn’t a bad person, but he did fuck up and hurt me – and I don’t want to be with someone who makes mistakes like that. Remember that if he comes crawling back – just because you had good sex, great fun, whatever doesn’t mean he is the right one. You will find someone who matches you better!
Oh and the email after the facebook photo made me laugh – he’s so moved on aparently but worries what you might think? Pffff this is the time you take the power back and not care. I really really really wish I had taken the high road and just ignored my ex when he first left. Instead I groveled, called, sent emails, begged him to come back and I’m so much better than that! So are you! Being single is awesome btw, write a huge list of things you like doing tbat he didn’t like and do them all! Girl power! :p