(Closed) Update to drama with the bridal party

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
10275 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Why couldn’t your bridesmaids plans bachelorette if they are so bummed about it not happening? 

Your Maid/Matron of Honor obviously crossed the line but she’s not obligated to throw/plan parties and your bridesmaids shouldn’t complain if they don’t want to help at all. I’m guessing there is plenty of blame to go around in this situation.

Post # 4
14159 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Nobody is obligated to host or co-host a shower or a bachelorette party. 

I agree with you that your maid of honor was totally out of line to go invoicing people based on the fact that you asked them to be in your wedding. That would have been true even if she had stepped up to host and pay. 

But likewise, she doesn’t owe you a bachelorette and it is inappropriate for you to be involved. Any friend or friends could have offered.

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