(Closed) Update to family feud….

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think that you handled that really well.   I am thrilled that you and your mom have found some common ground on which to work within but your sister still makes me sad.  I think that you are doing the best for everyone to distance yourself and make her responsible for her own choices.

P.S.  Please tell me there are going to be a ton of pics from the Shugan, and what exactly is it? 

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Bellanouva:  Your sister has been self absorbed ever since you and I first met and you are doing a great job of not playing into her games.  Just keep up what you are doing and keep letting putting her behavior back onto her.  Your mom, well, she prob will see it in time especially when your sister really focuses her behavior on her mom.  That will be when she comes to the realization that it isn’t working on you anymore. 

I can’t wait to see the pics!!!  Do you get a pretty dress? 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Take a deep breath sweetheart!

I’ll wait…

 

Ok, I completely understand where you’re coming from, family drama is the story of my life! Just always remember what’s important in your life, Shaun. He loves you and he’ll always be there for you.

Don’t give her the satisfaction of getting to you, she’s being immature!

Lots of love!

 

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Bellanouva:  I am sooo jealous!  I would have done anything to have had a reason to have worn a beautiful Indian dress, but it would look so rediculous in with my red hair and German white skin πŸ™

Luv ya lots Chica

Post # 12
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Busy bee

honestly its probably better for everyone involved if she doesnt show up. You can enjoy the day without having to deal with her nonsense. The only one that will look bad in all of this is her

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@tksjewelry: I agree.. Redheads and our pasty white skin! lol I love indian weddings so colorful and fun of tradition.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Bella- I just read through the first post and this one now. I’m so sorry you’ve been having to deal with these things. I had no idea. πŸ™

I think you handled yourself well, and I’m so glad that you and your mom seem to be compromising.

Best of luck with the rest of your planning, and like tksjewelry, I can’t wait to see pretty pics from your shogum(sp?)!! And Happy Birthday!!! *hugsss* πŸ™‚

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

**shugan! Sorry! :[

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