Member- lionessa
- 3 years ago
Hi everyone, thanks for all of the feedback! We both have our foot in our mouth at our poor social graces in the situation.
Here is what happened in the end.
– When I initially mentioned it to my co-worker, it was in passing and casual. She’s a vegan so what I mentioned was stopping by for wine/ dessert. She never asked again and actually has other plans. Coworker never knew the place or time to go.I apologized to coworker and let her know we aren’t going to the potluck party and she has other plans so I didn’t invite her to our house.
– SO apologized to Claire. We decided since Claire mentioned a few times she had a few people on the wait list and said she was stressed all day over this, we thought maybe it’s better just not to go and give an opportunity for her to invite those on the wait list. It’s not really a logistics thing but Claire has in mind how many people she wants there. Claire originally told us to bring our puppy and put in the yard. Two days ago she told us we cannot bring the puppy so our dog day care is full and puppy cannot stay by herself all day. It’s going to be a lot to run back and forth to let her out. We are very happy to hang out in our pajamas with puppy and cook our own meal. 
All is well that ends well. We feel bad for stressing out Claire but I think she is also happy we are not coming and she can invite other friends from her wait list.
– Brother is coming for Xmas. SO emailed his dad and stepmom and forwarded me the reply.
Happy thanksgiving everyone!
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This topic was modified 3 years, 4 months ago by
lionessa.
