UPDT: Ex-BF Frm HS Who Hit Me Has Threatened To Expose Illegally Obtained Pics?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
Member
3867 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

Don’t know why you need to get tested.

Do you know what videos/photos he has? Do you know for a fact they exist? Just wondering how it all happened that he took pics of you without your consent but you know about them. I mean if it’s true that’s a big violation of privacy and I don’t know why you would engage with him. If you’re taking him at his word he could be bluffing. I think the whole threat was just a bluff actually.

You’re addressing it with the police so apart from that just block him on all platforms and try to forget it. Don’t worry about whatever he had to tell you, I’m 100% sure he was just messing with you. After 7 years there’s nothing he could possibly say that is anything to do with you. 

Why did you make a post last week about this scenario but leaving out the part with the photo threat…? This really is odd. I hate not being able to tell troll from real.

Post # 33
Member
2766 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

vegetablesyogalove :  this is waaaay beyond WB’s scope. You might be better served by going over to reddit r/legaladvice 

Post # 34
Member
1271 posts
Bumble bee

i don’t see how him having an STD would cause you to need to get tested? if you haven’t been in contact in 7 years and have been tested since then how could this STD you’ve randomly decided he has impact you in any way? i’m always on team #gettested so if it makes you feel better do it up…but i’m seriously confused on this whole story.

Post # 35
Member
6482 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

He sounds like he acts like a psycho stalker creep because that’s what gets a response. He reached out, you ignored him. He acted like a pest, you said no thanks. He acted all the way crazy at 4 am and suddenly you “decided to amuse myself”. Don’t do that. You need to respect and enforce your own boundaries. Hopefully, he’ll get scared off by whatever repercussions are threatened as a result of him claiming to be in possession of compromising photos/videos of you as a minor.

But moving forward- when you tell a guy with poor boundaries and social skills to fuck off, you can’t turn around and answer the phone when they up the obnoxious behaviors.

Leave a comment


Find Amazing Vendors