(Closed) upset

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4031 posts
Honey bee

@fitnflair:  Honestly, you need to let it go. There is no way you can be sure he said it and it was at a time that you two were struggling in your relationship. If you are about to get married, I hope your relationship is in a better, healthier place.

He obviously chose you and you chose him. I would not worry about the random comment she made.

Post # 5
11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Let it go. Everyone at some point has probably had their thought about their SO – can you honestly say you’ve never had that fleeting thought?!

She was probably telling you as a compliment and you took it the wrong way. It was 2 years ago – peoples feelings change ALOT in 2 years.  Even if he was feeling that way then, clearly he came to his senses and doesn’t feel that way now. 

Post # 6
283 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Yes you should let it go (:  it definitely sounded more like a compliment.  Hubby and i took two different breaks before getting engaged & nothing i ever heard from my Mother-In-Law or him was ever that nice lol

Post # 7
1540 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

If you two were having problems, I wouldn’t blame him for wondering. If he were to have said it recently, or maybe if you never had a break and he said it, I would be more upset.

Post # 8
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Isn’t that why you two took a break, to see if you were really ready to be together or if there was someone else out there for you? It’s a very normal question to ask actually, most people just don’t say it. Let it go, he is marrying you.

Post # 9
2755 posts
Sugar bee

Please let it go. You took a break for that reason and it’s something natural to wonder, especially in times of hardship – obviously, he discovered there wasn’t anyone better and chose to ask you to spend the rest of your lives together. So don’t dwell on it at all – you’re just going to cause so much unnecessary stress.

Post # 10
1718 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with PPs about letting this go.  I think your FMIL’s intent was to tell you how she thought of you; she thought there was “no one better” for her son.  It’s a compliment!  Try not to over think it.  

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