(Closed) Upset and confused about friend's attitude (long) what to do?

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1691 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@LilDrAnya:  Have you tried just having a heart to heart with her about how she’s changed and you’re worried about her?  Maybe try to let her know how you feel, how you’re not sure what’s going on anymore and you’d like to be there for her if something is going wrong.

Post # 4
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11284 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@LilDrAnya:  she doesn’t sound like much of a friend.  i also have a feeling that she has things going on in her personal life.  if she wanted you to know what that was, she would discuss that with you.  just let her know that you are there for her.

i would just welcome her and her +1 to the wedding and hope that she has a good time.  i personally wouldn’t mind if she brought a friend if her husband can’t make it.  she has to travel to the wedding and some people just don’t like to travel alone.

Post # 6
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11284 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@LilDrAnya:  sometimes the best way to just “be there” for someone is to be positive and supportive.  that’s really all you can do.

Post # 7
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18 posts
Newbee

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Post # 8
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1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

“Barely” is how that word you keep using is spelled. “Barley,” for your reference, is a major cereal grain.

Post # 10
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2300 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@LilDrAnya:  i would reply with, ‘well i’d love if husband could make it, but if he can’t, you’ll certainly know lots of others, x, y and z are coming and we could place you at their table’

just gloss over the entire friend issue and hopefully she’ll get the hint that if her husband can’t come, she’ll still know people. 

 

i’m sorry she’s been so negative, that lunch sounded like torture – the jewish comment?! who says things like that?

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