(Closed) Upset with my Wedding Planner

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Am I over-reacting to this?
    Yes, get over yourself or you're going to start growing a tail : (1 votes)
    6 %
    Maybe, but I don't think you're a bridezilla : (0 votes)
    No, your wedding planner needs to shape up : (13 votes)
    76 %
    No, your Mom is being a momzilla : (3 votes)
    18 %
  • Post # 3
    613 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2009

    why is it that moms always throw out the ‘bridezilla’ thing?  everytime I ask my mom to do anything (ie taste cake since the wedding is 3000 miles away from where I live or not to wear a FUSHIA dress to the navy blue and pewter wedding) she calls me a bridezilla. AHHHH!!!!!  Mothers…But, this is the great thing about this board.  You can vent about mom and coordinator.

    So anyway (sorry to rant mid post), I think that you are PAYING this damn coordinator so it is her JOB to be more flexible.  Why is it such a big deal that you want to meet with the DJ?  If anything, I would consider it a red-flag that she keeps trying to blow the meeting off.  I live in SoCal so I definitely understand the traffic thing…if I can only meet on Saturday, and Ive already told you that 3-4 times, why do you keep trying to schedule meetings on Wednesday?  Put your foot down…she isnt doing this as a favor to you, and she’s not your aunt.  I say, be more demanding, not less.


    Post # 4
    1428 posts
    Bumble bee

    I don’t think you’re being Bridezilla-ish at all either. I would want to meet with the DJ too…why is that such a hardship for her to "coordinate"? She is working for you, you are paying for her to do so, she should be accommodating to you & your wishes.

    Is there any chance you could find another coordinator at this point or would that be too much of a hassle? I would let her know in a nice but FIRM way that you are not too happy with her lack of service at this point and that she needs to work with you & your FI’s schedule if she wants to continue being your coordinator.

    Post # 5
    3979 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    I agree with happilywaiting. You’ve hired her to co-ordinate your wedding- what’s her problem? She’s not delivering the service you expected & I really think you should discuss this with her. It’s not right for her to go up against your wishes. I would suggest just talking to her… I always have a 3 strikes you’re our policy! If she doesn’t shape up then maybe (if possible) get a new co-ordinator or go with someone else from her firm?

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