- Ms Scarlet
- 8 years ago
- Wedding: February 2011
I’m so jealous to all those lucky ladies that got to do something special with their SO today. I had my hopes up (I am not waiting for the ring by the way so this is not about that), I thought we would be going somewhere nice, have a nice long talk, maybe if he wasn’t planned he’d get me some flowers from the deli…or at least apologize for not doing anything..but nothing! I have been hinting and reminding all week. He never bothered to ask if I wanted to do anything this weekend.
I on the other hand prepared a special dinner and made a special dessert. He was surprised and appreciated it …but that was pretty much it. I’m so bummed and disappointed.
We have argued about V-day before back when we were still dating (I keep getting disappointed, and the years we do something I have to ASK and PLAN in advance) and SO thinks it’s a waste of money – kind of a made up occasion from chocolate/candy companies or jewelry stores for women to ask their men to splurge. He says we celebrate my birthday in November, in December there is Christmas, in January it’s New Years and his birthday, and in March is our anniversary. And when ever we have our wedding ceremony in the church that will also add onto the list so he thinks V-Day can be cut out since it doesn’t have any significance.
I get his point, we don’t need to celebrate 6 out of 12 months in a year…and to give him some credit some random days he buys me flowers or takes me out but just feel bummed and jealous today!
Am I the only one here that had nothing special going on this weekend?!