(Closed) Valentines Day Advice

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll:
    Send Flowers another day- Not valentines : (5 votes)
    16 %
    Send flowers signed from me : (26 votes)
    84 %
    Send flowers signed secret admirer : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5475 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I voted to send them signed from you… since you don’t want to run the risk of her thinking her ex wants to get back together or anything crazy like that.  Never underestimate the power of a box of chocolates & a bottle of wine!  Plan a night-in not on Valentines’ Day & just let her cry on your shoulder and vent ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 4
    Member
    7173 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    If you do send them – PLEASE sign them.  Getting them from an unnamed source will drive her bonkers and is likely the last thing she needs as she’s going through a rough patch.  And, worst case – she may think they are from him.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1902 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I agree, send them as a friend ie from you. Getting her hopes up she has a secret admirer is not going to boost her confidence when the interest doesnt follow through. Your a very good friend though to think of doing such a gesture though ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 5
    Member
    3942 posts
    Honey bee

    Getting flowers would drive me mad and I likely wouldnt sleep until I figured out who theyre from.

    Sign them from you ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 6
    Member
    2401 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I cant think of a worse idea than signing it from secret admirer. Also, I wouldn’t do flowers. Just honest opinion. How about offering to take her out for dinner, or hosting a girls night? That way you distract her from the day instead of giving her a gift she would have typically gotten from her boyfriend.

    Post # 7
    Member
    8882 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    Send them from you. It’ll show how much you care ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 9
    Member
    5797 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I’d skip the flowers and bring a bottle of wine over to her place. IDK flowers from a friend just read “oh poor single you” to me.

    Post # 10
    Member
    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I dont think sending her flowers will be the best option, it will just seem like a pity gift. I like the idea of maybe doing something together instead

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