Post # 1
Anyone else having the V-day blues? Or just me? Wanna come snuggle me, I’m about to curl up in bed and cry myself to sleep reading Taylor Armstrongs new book.
I’ve had about the worst Valentine’s day ever. I made my fiance a basket of things he loves and left them out for him last night since he didn’t get home from work until 1am. I heard him come home, look at it and went to watch TV. Usually he comes into the bedroom to say something. He said thank you when he came to bed but I was already over it. He signed up for doubles at work all week, said he didn’t know it was Valentine’s day. *Sigh*. So this morning he’s riding with a buddy of his and goes out to clean off the cars before leaving, he was outside for a while so I went to go check on him and his buddy’s truck was here and they were gone. No goodbye, no kiss, nothing. So I text him “Happy Valentine’s day to you too and thanks for saying goodbye” at 3 PM he finally texts back “I love you”. I said back “K”. I’m angry, annoyed, hurt, mad, most of all PMSing. All the girls at work were talking about their mornings and breakfest in bed, flowers were coming in like crazy and we had all kinds of candy and doughnuts and hearts and pink and love everywhere. Yet, me, nothing. I know it’s just a day but come on. Off to bed I go, I don’t care if it’s 7:43 I’m done with this day!
Post # 3
@Kristyn02: awww don’t be sad. I am not making execuses for him but he is most likelly tired from all the hours at work. I realy hate when girls brag about what their guys got them for V-day because not all guys are creative. Hey he treats you great all year long so you should be happy for that. hugs
Post # 4
I know I hate when girls brag also. I’m not asking for anything really other than a little acknowledgement that I’m here. I moved away from everyone to be with him and I just feel incredibly lonely lately.
Post # 5
@Kristyn02: I am sure he might suprise you when he gets home tonight. I never tell people what my Fiance gets me unless they ask me directly.
Post # 6
awwww – big hugs and chocolate to you!
my husband phoned me during the day to tell me with the rain, it was leaking in the dining room and onto the hardwood floors. so i get home about 4hrs later, picked up dinner on the way btw because i worked back and guess what i find?? yep, he left the water on the floor for me to clean up after a 13hr day.
men – cant train them, cant kill them and bury them in the backyard i tell you!
remember he loves you and no doubt he was very tired after his double
Post # 7
My V-day has instant noodles and Die Hard. <_<
Post # 8
@mrsbruff2b: Haha I feel ya, I had some good old ramen noodles!
Post # 9
Sometimes men are thoughtless.
But, there is something about Valentine’s Day that creates these unrealistic expectations for people. Then people become even more upset than they would normally because ‘It’s Valentine’s Day’ and that’s really hard on both parties.
Tell him he fucked up, explain why then accept his apology and move on. It’s not worth it. But it is worth it to remind him to be courteous.