- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
My Darling Husband had a vasectomy 3 1/2 yrs ago after the birth of his third child. He obviously never thought he would be getting a divorce and remarrying. I’ve come to terms with this and the possibility that I will never have my own biological children. But it was very hard for me to accept, and I DO still want to try… Something… Anything. I just turned 30 and Darling Husband is 31. He spoke to his dr about a reversal and his odds are good for it to be successful, but there is still no gaurentee it will work. Plus, the cost is somewhat prohibitive. Has anyone had any experience with this?
I have not done much research into IVF other than to know its an option. Is anyone TTC this way? Any information/experience you could share would be extremely appreciated.
I want my ‘own’ babies. I love my children so so much – they and Darling Husband are my world, but they will always have a real mom that isn’t me. I married Darling Husband knowing that it might not happen for us, but that we would try everything in our power to make it happen. Ultimately I know that if god wants us to have a child, we will, but I’m not going to sit around and wait for a miracle.