- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
I will be getting married on June 1st in Las Vegas. Our original plan was to have two groomsmen and two bridesmaids. However we just found out the groomsmen can’t make it. Now I’m the kind of person that needs things to be even, and to match. So now I can’t decide if I should have any bridesmaids at all. Just have our daughter as the flower girl and thats it. Even though they won’t be standing up there with us, we still are going to consider them bridesmaids and groomsmen. Even my third girlfriend who can’t make it is still considered my bridesmaid. The other thing is, if we don’t have a bridal party, that also saves us about $300. We were going to go shopping for dresses tomorrow, which I would have paid about $100 each, and their flowers are $50 each. One of my bridesmaids won’t be hurt if she can’t stand up there, she actually said she would be relieved because she wouldn’t need to buy new shoes.. I don’t know how I feel about that. But whatever… I am just having a hard time making up my mind.