(Closed) Veil Blusher Question (Ceremony)

posted 8 years ago in Accessories
  • poll: Are you wearing your veil over you face when walking down the aisle? What are you doing?
    Having your Father (escort) lift it when they "give you away" : (22 votes)
    44 %
    Wear thru the end of the ceremony and Have your groom Lift it before the kiss. : (14 votes)
    28 %
    Other... please explain : (14 votes)
    28 %
  • Post # 16
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    341 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Oh boy…I’m not sure what I’ll end up doing.  I think I’ll have my dad lift it when he gives me away.  But I also like the idea of my dad leaving it in place.  I think I’ll decide after I have it on.  If I have trouble with it, I don’t want it over my face during the vows/ceremony.

    Post # 17
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    347 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I had a small birdcage viel that really didn’t cover my face, so I wore it the whole night.  No need to lift it to kiss the husband!  But if mine were longer, I would have my husband lift it before he kisses me.  I think that would be so cute!

    Post # 18
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    155 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    my hubby is lifting mine, just when he is about to seal the deal with a kiss.

    Post # 20
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    30 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I know I am resurrecting an old post, but I am planning on having my Fiance lift mine. I read this blog post from A Practical Wedding and  I fell in love with the idea of having a moment to symbollicaly say to each other, I see you for who you are and I choose you. I am going to talk with my officiant about how to quietly work that in to the ceremony, probably just as we begin our vows. A bit different than the progressive Jewish custom that Meg describes in that post, but I think it’s a lovely idea.

    Post # 21
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    882 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    My mom and dad did it. My dad had said that he wanted to do it, but he ended up needing some help properly adjusting it! 

    Post # 22
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    315 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    i dont know if ill have it over my face or not. I;ve thought about this a bit, and i dont remember any brides ive seen with it over their faces!

    Post # 23
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    731 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    @SouthernTulip:  I will do the same!

    As for the meaning behind the veil thing… what I’ve heard most is because of the purity/modesty thing. my family is SUPER traditional/old fashioned, especially since my mom grew up in France where weddings follow the old traditions more often. My French aunt was not allowed, or not “supposed” to wear a blusher (or even a veil) b/c she was not a virgin when she got married in the 80’s. Neither was my cousin who got married in France in ’11. They were both bare-headed. Maybe this is just my weird family, though.

    I am attaching no meaning to my own veil other than that I will wear it/lift it however I think is prettiest. haha 🙂

    Post # 24
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    204 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I’m wearing a veil, just not over my face.  It’s one layer and the comb will be placed in my hair, with it hanging down with my hair.  I personally didn’t want to wear it over my face, just because I think its too old fashioned.  I wanted a veil to look “bridal”, but have been independent for quite some time now (I’m 28) and my Fiance and I live together, thus didn’t feel the need to wear it over my face.

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