(Closed) VENT!!!

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
2712 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yikes! That really sucks.  I’m a big proponent of the “You only get one day” philosophy, but when it comes to family weddings, stuff needs to be spread out.  It’s not so much because someone’s spotlight is getting stolen but because it puts a huge burden on guests.  And this is a double whamey because the weddings are around the holidays.  Weddings can be time consuming and expensive so it’s usually advised that there is at least a 2 month gap between the weddings.  

Has your Future Sister-In-Law booked anything?  Do you think your Fiance could mention that it might not be the best timing?  I don’t like the idea of telling people when to have their weddings, but I think someone should at least bring to her attention that this could create a lot of problems for the shared guests.

Post # 4
2605 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

You’re right that all you can do is let it go. At the end of the day, you’ll be wed to the man you love. Your Future Sister-In-Law should never have picked November.

Post # 6
1250 posts
Bumble bee

KateriPetrie:  You may have to scale back your involvement in FSIL’s wedding to just getting the dress and standing up the day of. You’re wedding is a month after hers, and she knew this, so I’m sure she would understand. 

Post # 7
2947 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014


KateriPetrie:  You are absolutly within your rights to be a bit upset about it.  Your Future Sister-In-Law is silly to put so much pressure on FI’s family in such a short period of time.  Be upset, have ice cream and moan about it to your Fiance.  Don’t let yourself get swept away in being at every event for all three weddings (its okay to skip FSIL’s second shower or similar) But the ones that you attend work up a public smile.

Post # 9
294 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

KateriPetrie:  wow that is a lot. And I agree with all of the pp. One helpful thought – check out http://www.renttherunway.com – i used it in the past for a USMC Ball and it was awesome. In a small way, it could alleviate some of your financial stress. I completely understand!

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