(Closed) VENT: 4 months to go and now…

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
163 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@WestieGirl:  Ew. She sounds like a MAJOR B. I’m sorry that you changed your wedding location because of them. I would just ignore them, and have a BLAST at your wedding day. Also, you definitely should show up to Sunday service with him. Does she really think her son is going to hide his wife from the world forever? HOW RUDE.

Post # 4
3303 posts
Sugar bee

Hugs, hope they chip in with his expenses.

Post # 5
3886 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

This sounds like more drama than it’s worth to me. Politely and respectfully decline your FMIL’s “offer” of help, and tell her that you’d much rather she not trouble herself with being anything other than a guest.  If you and your fiance accept any money from her, you KNOW it will have oodles of strings attached and that’s not going to end well.

Post # 7
169 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

Oh please turn up at her church! That would be priceless 

Post # 8
505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@WestieGirl:  I’m sorry to hear all the troubles you are going through.  I think I read your earlier post and if I remember your Fiance is Korean?  

I would forget about the money the family sent.  You won’t see it or any money her friends give as a “gift”.  I know alot of crazy Korean Mother-In-Law that collect the cash during the wedding and the couple never see a dime of it.  It’s sad but it happens all the time.

Just continue doing your thing and planning and just have your Fiance deal with his mother.  

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