(Closed) Vent about Kays sales associate.

posted 8 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I don’t have any advice, but had an experience with a rude sales associate at a Kay’s here too.  I was just looking at diamond wedding bands to match my E ring with my Maid/Matron of Honor one day and the guy only showed me the band with the biggest carat weight they had and told me any smaller would look ridiculous.  He wouldn’t even show me any smaller ones and then went to help some lady down at the other end of the counter.

Post # 4
2196 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Holy cow–what unprofessional behavior!! I am so sorry that you had to deal with that.  I would report him to the store manager and report your experience there on every review website that can be found.  That is totally innappropriate.

Post # 5
1426 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

They were the same way with me too!  I wanted to get mine sized up half a size, because it was really tight in the summer, but the saleswoman said I should keep it the same.  When I said I would really prefer it to be a little bigger, she said “well don’t come crying to us this winter when it falls off and you lose it!” in this really snotty tone.  I don’t think it’s necessarily a Kay’s thing though, just these individual employees.  Is there another Kay’s near you that you could try?  There might be more understanding employees at a different store.  Also, ask about maybe doing a quarter size, if you are worried about doing too big a change. 

Post # 7
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I would call the manager first before putting a bunch of bad reviews out there in case he fixes it.  I’m sorry you had such bad customer service there though!

Post # 9
159 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

wow! thats just ridiculous!  

i would go in and ask to speak to the manager, tell him/her the story and see what they have to say, then go from there!

i hope the manager is adequately apologetic and takes care of your ring!


Post # 11
1110 posts
Bumble bee

Ah!  Kay is crazy.  BF and I went there once so he could buy me something shiny, and the clerks were SOOO rude!

The store was semi-busy, and we found something outside, so we came inside and stood around for a good 10-15 minutes.  No one so much as looked in our direction, not even for “I’ll be with you when I am done with these people”, and there was one person who was just finishing up with a couple as we were walking in.

We got mad and went to Zales, and wrote Kay an angry email.  They said to come back and someone would work with us personally, but we were in college, so only but so much jewelry could be bought…

Most definitely write to Kay or complain to the manager.  This guy could just be a jerk, and they might even do the work for free to keep a customer.

Post # 12
673 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Seriously! Some jewelers can be sooooo rude. Sorry you were treated so poorly. I would go in to ask a question and notice his name tag. Then I would call corporate. If you behaved courteously to him there is NO excuse for him treating you like that. You would be doing their company a favor by making a complaint.


I’ve been treated rudely by jewelers. I went in pre-engagement to try on a few styles and I asked if she wouldn’t mind sizing my ring finger just so I would know the size. She refused. Ha ha maybe she knew I was going to order online. I was honest with her from the beginning that I was there to look and get style ideas. Ordering from someone else was sweet revenge. 

Post # 13
673 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

P.S. maybe establish a relationship with a local jeweler and maybe you can get your ring maintenance done there in the future.

Post # 15
218 posts
Helper bee

That sucks. ๐Ÿ™

Did they let you try on the ring sizer to see what size you are?

Also, because it’s cold out right now, your fingers are going to be smaller… I’d wait until It gets warmer out before deciding if you really need to get it sized, especially if you really have to walk the ring over your knuckle to take it on and off… that’s how it’s supposed to fit.

Post # 16
177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

i don’t get how some people think they can treat other people like that! after i got my ering i went into kay’s to get a ring guard because mine too was a little big. the guy told me if i applied for a card (didn’t have to be approved) he’d give it to me for free (otherwise it was $15) so i figured what the heck, i didn’t think i’d get approved (my credit is a bit spotty) and the guy comes back with the application and i am now a card carrying kay customer. that being said i do pop in there every so often to visit the shiny baubles and more often than not i’m generally ignored. i think they see someone young and they feel like i don’t have the money to actually spend in there. i went at christmas time to get my sister something and the girl wasn’t too friendly. when she was about to ring me up she was starting to talk some nonsense about filling this out blah blah blah then i slap my kay card on the counter and all of a sudden she’s all smiles and beyond helpful. jerk. Fiance and i went in to the one near us on friday to look at wedding rings and the guy was actually pretty damn cool. so i figure for every 4 jerks there’s a good one in the mix. much like life. i’d still complain if i was you – it doesn’t make it right.

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