(Closed) Vent about MOH

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@mrsrigsby60:  Sounds like they are a nightmare, but it also sounds like you’re being a pushover.  You can’t be upset about things you aren’t willing to try and change and no one can make you feel insuperior without your permission!  They’re behaving this way because they’re allowed to.  Don’t forget whose day it is!  Where’s your Fiance in all of this?

Post # 4
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8695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Have you talked to your Fiance about this? Im wondering why he hasnt stepped in and is allowing his family (sis) to run all over you

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

The two friends you had to cut becuase you allowed Future Mother-In-Law to get her way–why were they not in the wedding if they are your only 2 friends?

You’re allowing them to get away with too much. Fiance needs to step in and help control the woman on his side. They are being completely ridiculous. You need to stick up for yourself and remind them who is getting married.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@mrsrigsby60:  You can’t be miserable and not lean on your Fiance.  That’s what he’s there for….

Post # 10
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Busy bee

Why is this person even in your wedding?  You need to stand up for yourself.  These people have steamrolled your whole wedding

Post # 12
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3121 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@mrsrigsby60:  It’s 75 days out, and you can’t make a grown person do something they don’t want to do.

 

That’s what they’re doing to you…

Post # 16
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8695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@mrsrigsby60:  oh ok. Well sorry you are going through this. This doesnt seem like a good start to marrying someone if their family is like that. I know you were venting but by posting a thread everyone will ask questions and give their opinions to try and help you or understand. Good Luck, the day will be over before you know it.

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