- 8 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
I am having a Maid/Matron of Honor problem…she shares no enthusiasm about my wedding, relationship, etc. I can sort of understand why though. We are 24 years old (which is young in my opinion) and the majority of our friends are either married, engaged, or in serious relationships. The problem is she has never had a boyfriend. She complains about it all the time and seems bitter at everyone who has a significant other. I’m just so frustrated because she is my best friend and I asked her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor because I wanted her to stand up there with me when I get married. But she really has not done that much for me except complain. I am getting married in 4 months and she has not planned a bachelorette party, never really asks about the wedding, and pretty much acts like it doesn’t exist. I try my best to balance my time between my fiance, school (I’m a law student), and my friends but I feel like it is just never enough for her. It also doesn’t help that every single one of our friends boyfriends/husbands/fiances have said she is completely unapproachable. I try my best to be there for her and be understanding because I know it must be hard being the only single one out of the group but I feel like I am not even excited about my wedding because my maid of honor could care less about my excitement. I don’t know if anyone has any advice on what to do about this situation but i just needed to vent!